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dear xTeen Candyx,

I'm really scared...like very scared like...i cant talk 2 u scared...like...its freaky..very!! my parents r getting divoresed, and i think its mostly my fault but i dont really know...its just...creepy.. u no..like...i dont no wats going 2 happen 2 me...i mean...i luv...both my...parents...alot..and...i ...cant stand the thot of them...breaking...up...plz dont put my name....im scared my frends will no who i am...i am 10 years old...my brother is only 4...help! -freaked out

Dear freaked,

Something you just have to know, before you think of anything else, is, it's not your fault that they are getting divorced. Its not. It just isn't so don't get scared. Even if your friends find out, they will understand perfectly, that they are just getting divorced and its no big deal - IF they are true friends. It may be hard at first that they are getting divorced, but after a while, it will seem perfectly normal. You can still see each parent often, and visit a lot. Your brother is only 4, so he won't even know anything is happening, to your soon to be broken family. He'll proably just think that your parents are each on vacation or something. Just as long as you or your parents don't tell him, he will never remember this happening and he probably won't even think of it as such a big deal when he's older. He just, won't care. You know. Well, I hope this helps you calm down a bit.

xTeen Candyx

dear xteen candyx.ok sorry to be asking 4 adivce but i really need it!! my bf and me broke up last week after a long relationship w/ each other!!!!! i miss him soo badly, i wish we never broke off, but i don't know why...so i really need you rite now!!!!!!!! ~**kr!s+!e**~

Dear Kristie,

Don't say sorry! You don't need to! It's why there is an Advice section here! Talk to him. Just talk! Ask him why he broke up with you. If you're too scared, don't be, if you really love him enough to still go out with him, you shouldn't be afraid, or embarrassed. So go!

xTeen Candyx

hi teen candy ! first of all, i luv ur site and its like the best!!! but i also have a question for you, should i be scared for my friend or not? ok, here's the story, me n my best friend were friends since we met in kindergarten. a few weeks ago, i stopped seeing her alot and shes been hanging out with these guys way older then her. (were 15 they are 19) when walking home (we live close together) she told me she had sex with one of them!! it was like eeek! should i be scared for her or not? nobody no's but me and her and her boyfriend... i never dated anyone before and i have no experiance!!!! her parents have been saying she has been carrtying extr aweight, but they dont know shes pregnant!! plz help me quick!! scared

Dear Scared,

Ah! That is so scary! You should be scared for her! Tell her to tell her parents, and if she doesnt - You will. Tell her how dangerous it is to have sex with someone in and older grade, without telling anyone about it! Tell her parents and your parents the truth, even if it means losing your friendship. If she was really your friend, she wouldn't care. But from what I see, you're an awesome person to be friends with!